Your feelz. Aren’t they important, valued? Shouldn’t the world be all about them? Not according to Michael Bennett.
Toronto-born, Upper Canada College- and Harvard-educated psychiatrist Dr. Michael Bennett often found himself growing increasingly weary of the nattering — the self-obsessing by his patients, their over-belief in a cure for their problems/feelings/anxieties/behaviour if they only worked harder.
“At some point, I would say, ‘to hell with your feelings,’ ” Bennett says over the phone from his office outside Boston, Mass.
Bennett likes to curse, “in good humour,” because it shocks people out of their complacency. After all, isn’t mindless positivity its own virtue? Continue reading

