She was predator, not prey. It was consensual, not coercive. But how would Monica Lewinsky know that someday, 20 years in the future, a narrative would arise that would enable her to reinvent herself as the victim?
I have been working toward this realization for years. I have been trying to find that power—a particularly Sisyphean task for a person who has been gaslighted.
To be blunt, I was diagnosed several years ago with post-traumatic stress disorder, mainly from the ordeal of having been publicly outed and ostracized back then. My trauma expedition has been long, arduous, painful, and expensive. And it’s not over.
Take a second to breathe, wipe the tear from your eye, and reflect. Monica has. Continue reading
