Much of the story is utterly commonplace, as home burglar alarms get tripped all the time, and the police showing up is kind of the point. So what’s the problem here?
[Kazeem] Oyeneyin said a friend stayed over that night and tripped the alarm unknowingly when he left. Oyeneyin says he disengaged it and went back to sleep.
“I just laid back down and all I heard was somebody screaming downstairs,” he said. “So I grab my firearm because I don’t know what’s going on. And I run down the stairs and it’s a cop.”
“Hey come out with your hands up,” the officer yells from the door as Oyeneyin is still upstairs.
The good news is that the obvious concern, at the stage where cops confront a guy with a gun, isn’t the story, because it didn’t happen.
Oyeneyin tells the officer he has his firearm in his hand. The officer responds, “Drop the gun! Drop the gun,” and Oyeneyin immediately puts the weapon on the floor.
So what’s the story? What came next.
“Ok come out here. Come out for me,” the officer yells. Oyeneyin responds, “What you mean come on out? I got on my drawers!”
The incident continues to escalate as Oyeneyin is ordered to put his hands behind his back and get on his knees.
“We got a 4-4 alarm here. I got an open door. I’m trying to make sure,” the officer says to a seemingly exasperated Oyeneyin.
Oyeneyin is inside his own home, comfortably nestled on the good guy curve, and confused as to why these cops would rather put him down than hear him out. At this point, some might argue that the cops are just doing their job, carefully checking to be sure that this fellow, who had a gun in a home where the alarm went off to alert the police to a burglary. If they didn’t show, they would be criticized. It they shot him, they would be indicted. And now they’re criticized for doing their job. They just can’t win.
You can’t blame Oyeneyin for being confused and angry.
The homeowner responds, “I just talked to the alarm people! I just talked to the alarm people!”
In our interview with Oyeneyin, he explained, “I’m confused why he’s still talking. He’s asking me if I have ID. I told him yeah. (I just want him to) identify me and get me out of here. I was like, I need a supervisor. I definitely need to see your supervisor because this ain’t right.”
When the alarm is mistakenly triggered, you get a call from central station to ask if it was false or the real deal. Oyeneyin spoke to the nice people at central station. He told them it was false. He gave them his code. That, if the system works as it’s supposed to, should be the end of the problem and everybody goes about their business, even if that’s going back to sleep
But there’s one additional factor that should have clued the cops into the fact that this is the extremely common situation of a false alarm.
On the tape, you see at least four other Raleigh police officers arrive on scene. With Oyeneyin in handcuffs, wearing just his underwear, he was escorted outside to a waiting police car.
On top of the norm of false alarms, of a homeowner ready, willing and able to show identification, you have a guy in his skivvies at 12:30 p.m., a time when many people are in bed [Edit *], asleep, at home. What are the chances a burglar broke into this home, stripped down to his skivvies at half past, and was otherwise compliant with the cops when they came in response to the burglar alarm?
And then the cops decide that the only way to address this scenario is to take the cuffed potential homeowner in his skivvies outside to the flashing patrol car so the neighbors can watch?
It has become a bit too easy to be critical of cops, even when the guy lives. Had they not taken Oyeneyin outside in his underwear, a needless act of obvious embarrassment, there would likely be nothing to talk about here beyond, maybe, a bit of excess caution by the police. And then comes the overhype the other direction:
“It’s a lot of stories like this that go untold,” said Raleigh community advocate Kerwin Pittman, executive Director of RREPS (Recidivism Reduction Education Program Services).
“There’s no reason this man should have been pulled out of his house, not asked for paper ID and it progressed that far. This man was criminalized, humiliated, stigmatized in his own home”
There is a good probability that the cops assumed too much from the fact that Oyeneyin was black. After all, what’s a black guy doing in a house where the alarm goes off at night? It’s not as if he could own a home, because, well, reasons. But then, this could serve as a teaching lesson about racial assumptions, not to mention people at home at night in their underwear, so as not to put another black homeowner through this humiliation. Instead, it gets “criminalized, humiliated, stigmatized in his own home.”
Oyeneyin deserves a really, but really, sincere apology, and probably a couple PBA cards should he get stopped for driving while black speeding. He was embarrassed in a way no one should be and without justification. But if the point of the story is to prevent cops from indulging racial assumptions and preventing a black homeowner from being humiliated, or worse if the next cop is a little more antsy about the gun in the homeowner’s hand, then we need to make far better use of these stories of error than serial hyperbole. Is the point to stop this sort of thing from happening, or use it to prove the awfulness of racist cops?
*[Edit] Yes, it was 12:30 in the afternoon, not at night. Telling time is hard, and I was clearly not up to the task. My bad.
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Heads up, happened during the day.
Considering his line of work as a party/concert promoter, it makes sense that he would be sleeping though.
Oh crap, you’re right.
I know of at least one large city department that resolutely refuses to answer automatic homeowner alarms because of the astronomical rate of false alarms. The policy was that response required a direct call to dispatch from the homeowner, occupant or reasonably adjacent neighbor. Calls from the alarm companies about residential alarms were also declined unless they had security personnel who were at the property making the call.
As far as the suspect being in his skivvies at 12:30 am (not pm) when the first officer arrived being a “clue”, it may mean he is a sleepy homeowner and it may mean he is a rapist or perv.
Finally, the homeowner did the very right thing by laying down his handgun immediately when directed to do so. It is hard to tell the tone of the conversation from the printed word, but if he chose to be verbally combative rather than follow commands the trip to a secure vehicle in cuffs is the logical response for everyone’s safety.
A total of five officers on scene tells me that it was either a slow shift or that Raliegh needs to consider reducing their staffing levels. (Yes, that thought cracks me up, too.)
At some point, you either go with the odds (especially when they reach 99.99 to 1) or just shoot everybody to effectuate the First Rule of Policing. I don’t know about you in your skivvies, but this grandpa bod ain’t into it.
Go home alive at the end of your shift. That first rule?
As far as skivvies go, I have an advanced case of Antique Furniture Disease. My chest fell into my drawers.
I prefer to phrase it as “make it home for dinner,” but yes, that’s the First Rule of Policing.
This happened a few neighborhoods over from me – this is a solidly middle to upper-middle class area of Raleigh that is very racially diverse and quite a few officers in the Raleigh PD and Wake County Sheriffs live here. Many houses have alarms and cameras and the majority own a firearm. Pretty much the only calls cops get in our neighborhoods are noise complaints, false alarms, and kids shooting off fireworks – this shouldn’t have been anything more than mundane in the middle of the afternoon (it was noon, not night time). There are a lot of not-so-great neighborhoods in the same police district, so they get plenty of action to keep them busy and let them pull out their guns and shout at people (just had a shooting last night!).
In the video on the local news he wasn’t “combative”, but certainly pissed they wanted to cuff him in his own home while nearly ass naked as anyone would be. I don’t think this was a case of a white officer seeing a black man “somewhere he shouldn’t have been” type racism – probably a quarter of the people in our area are black families. It looks much more like contempt of cop in the video.
A retired cop friend says he has to get his head out his ass for holding a gun that way. Only TV cops and gang members hold a gun in that cool way. It defeats aiming. So yea get rid of the morons on the force
He’s lucky they weren’t filming an episode of Cops at the time.
I hope he was wearing clean underwear for his mother’s sake.
Pre or post?
Eww.
Speaking as an insurance man, I affirm that you will receive a small discount on your homeowners for having a centrally monitored alarm. Speaking as someone who wants to stay alive, it’s not worth the savings. This is exactly why I would never have a centrally monitored alarm. Why would anyone take a chance on accidentally inviting into their house, any cop, fully worked into a defensive, guns out, first rule of policing posture? It makes absolutely no sense to me.
My above rant sounds paranoid and anecdotally driven. But there is math involved. Alarm systems are sold to the consumer as a means of providing a positive indicator, to the police, that a person has entered without permission. As a practical matter, what they really do, is provide scores and scores of false positives to the police while almost never providing a true positive. As a matter of probability, a true positive almost never occurs. The insurance carriers attest that, as a statistical matter, monitored homes have fewer actual uninvited entries than un-monitored homes. On this point there is little debate. What is debated is causality. The alarm systems may not themselves be the causal factor. The exterior signs indicating the home has a monitored alarm, have a deterrent effect, and are more likely, the causal factor. So if you want your home to be more secure, and avoid dealing with the police by accident, stick a sign in your front yard that indicates you have a monitored alarm. But skip the monitoring.