On the twitters a few days ago, I asked why Eugene Volokh’s excellent post about responsible behavior following the J-Law hacking wasn’t the target of the usual ad hominem attacks by anti-revenge porn advocate Mary Anne Franks. David Ziff responded that it was the tone, an answer that failed to account for the many other “civil” reactions that were viciously castigated as “blame the victim” misogyny. Still, it seemed to be a great excuse.
But the complaint of tone, of civility, is one that not only permeates discussion amongst the self-proclaimed intelligentsia, but is now manifested in the sort of manipulation of the concept of expression seen from Berkeley’s Chancellor Nicholas Dirks and the Cyber Civil Rights folks. It’s being reflected in laws criminalizing bullying, revenge porn and, indeed, discussion on any matter of controversy. It was, as lawprof Bernie Burks explained to justify ignoring the arguments of law students that they had been burned, the toxic tone.
There are a lot of people who feel more comfortable with discussion characterized by a gentleness, a civility, that they embrace this idea. The debate is more pleasing to their sensibilities, even if each of us draws the line of propriety in a slightly different place. To indulge our own sensibilities, we willingly go blind to the fact that what is happening is that we relinquish a piece of our own argument for the benefit of a more pleasant discussion.
This is a terribly unsound practice, but a hard one to convey. People are willing to give up a lot to avoid unpleasantness, and they are particularly happy to do so when they ask that someone else give up their ground for pleasantness. Fredrik deBoer, a doctoral student in rhetoric, provided a very clear explanation in a post called “ah civility.” Continue reading →